As a family caregiver, have you noticed your loved one appears calm all morning but becomes confused and agitated every evening around dinner time? Or perhaps they start pacing the house as soon as the sun begins to set, becoming increasingly upset despite your best efforts to comfort them.
These behaviors often signal sundowning syndrome, a common pattern in people with dementia. The confusion and restlessness that appear like clockwork each evening can leave families feeling helpless and exhausted.
If you notice your loved one’s dementia symptoms worsen at specific times of day, you’re not alone. Many families face this challenge as their loved one’s memory loss progresses.

At South Hill Village in Spokane, WA, we understand how overwhelming these situations can become. Our memory care community provides specialized support for families navigating the complex behaviors that come with dementia and sundowning syndrome.
What is Sundowning?
Sundowning refers to increased confusion, anxiety, and restlessness that occurs in the late afternoon and evening hours. Unlike regular dementia, where confusion occurs throughout the day, these symptoms appear at predictable times and often worsen as darkness falls. However, sundowning can happen at any time, day or night.
Common sundowning syndrome symptoms include:
- Increased confusion or disorientation
- Restlessness, pacing, and wandering
- Agitation or irritability
- Difficulty sleeping or nighttime wandering
- Emotional outbursts or aggressive behavior
What causes sundowners varies from person to person. Several factors may contribute to these behaviors:
- Fatigue from the day makes it harder for people with dementia to cope with their surroundings
- Changes in lighting or shadows during evening hours may cause confusion
- The body’s internal clock becomes disrupted, leading to difficulty telling day from night
- Medical issues like infections can worsen confusion
- The stage of dementia also influences how severe these symptoms become as cognitive decline progresses over time
What Stage of Dementia is Wandering?
Wandering in dementia typically begins in the middle stages, though it can occur earlier or later depending on the individual. Understanding when to expect this behavior helps families prepare and respond appropriately.
Early to Middle Stages
Wandering in the elderly with dementia often starts when people can still walk independently but have increased confusion about time and place. They may try to “go home” even when they are home, or search for people from their past.
Common reasons people with dementia wander include:
- Looking for familiar places from their past
- Following old routines like going to work
- Responding to fear or anxiety about their surroundings
- Physical discomfort they cannot express
- Boredom or restlessness
Why Wandering Happens
The brain changes that cause dementia affect the areas responsible for memory, judgment, and spatial awareness. People may not recognize their current home as familiar, leading them to search for the “real” home from their memories.
Wandering in the elderly becomes particularly dangerous because people with dementia can become lost even in familiar areas. They may not remember their address, phone number, or how to ask for help.
Well-being Concerns
Families often worry most about wandering because it poses immediate safety risks. People may leave the house at any time of day or night, forget how to return, or become injured while walking in unsafe areas.
This behavior requires constant supervision and measures that many families struggle to provide at home.
Tips for Managing Sundowners
Managing sundowning behaviors requires patience and consistent strategies. While every person responds differently, these approaches can help reduce symptoms:
Create Structure and Routine
Maintain consistent daily schedules for meals, activities, and bedtime. Predictable routines help reduce confusion and anxiety throughout the day.
Manage Lighting
Increase natural light exposure during daytime hours. Open curtains and spend time outdoors when possible. Use soft lighting in the evening to avoid harsh shadows that may increase confusion.
Limit Overstimulation
Keep evening activities calm and simple. Avoid loud television shows, large gatherings, or complex tasks during late afternoon and evening hours.
Monitor Physical Needs
Ensure your loved one is comfortable, not hungry, and doesn’t need to use the bathroom. Physical discomfort often triggers behavioral changes.
Plan for Difficult Times
Since symptoms occur predictably, prepare for periods that may be challenging. Have calming activities ready and consider scheduling demanding tasks earlier in the day.
A Message for Caregivers
Sundowning syndrome in the elderly takes enormous emotional and physical energy from families. Your well-being matters just as much as that of your loved ones.
Self-Care Strategies
- Take regular breaks and accept help from family or friends
- Consider respite care services that provide temporary support
- Practice stress management through exercise, meditation, or activities you find relaxing
- Connect with support groups for dementia caregivers who understand these challenges
When to Seek Help
If behaviors become dangerous or you feel overwhelmed, professional memory care may provide the specialized support both you and your loved one need.
Why Memory Care May Be the Best Solution
Home care works for many families in early dementia stages, but progressive conditions often require specialized environments. Memory care communities offer structured neighborhoods specifically designed for individuals with dementia.
Professional memory care offers:
- Team members trained to manage challenging behaviors effectively
- Secure environments that prevent unsafe wandering
- Therapeutic activities designed for cognitive abilities
- 24-hour supervision and medical support
- Relief for family caregivers
When symptoms worsen or home safety becomes a concern, memory care provides peace of mind for families while ensuring that appropriate care is provided.
Memory Care at South Hill Village
Our memory care community in Spokane provides specialized programming designed to support loved one’s with dementia and their families. We understand the complex needs that come with progressive cognitive conditions.
Our approach focuses on the Connect, Move, Learn activity sequence to slow progression and manage behavior like sundowning.
FAQs: What is Sundowners Syndrome?
What is sundowning (sundowners) syndrome?
Sundowners syndrome describes increased confusion, agitation, and restlessness that occurs in people with dementia during late afternoon and evening hours.
What triggers sundowning and dementia behaviors?
Common triggers include fatigue, changes in lighting, disrupted sleep patterns, overstimulation, and physical discomfort, such as hunger or pain.
How can families manage sundowning symptoms at home?
Maintain consistent routines, increase daytime lighting, create calm evening environments, and ensure physical needs are met throughout the day.
Is professional memory care necessary for people with sundowners?
While many families manage symptoms at home initially, professional care becomes important when behaviors pose safety risks or overwhelm family caregivers.
Can medication help with sundowning symptoms?
Some medications may help manage severe agitation, but non-drug approaches like routine changes and environmental modifications are usually tried first.
Does sundowning syndrome affect all people with dementia?
Not everyone with dementia experiences sundowners, but it’s common enough that families should be prepared for the possibility as conditions progress.
Find Support at South Hill Village
If you’re struggling to manage dementia-related behaviors at home, our team is here to help. South Hill Village provides the specialized care and secure environment that both residents and families need during this challenging time.
Contact us today to learn more about our memory care program and schedule a tour. Let us provide the support and peace of mind your family deserves.
